A mother's heart is in grief....
Any child must know that
- It is okay for parents to talk in firm tone but a child must never!
- It is okay for parents to speak in a loud tone but a child must never!
- It is okay for parents to talk in a harsh tone but a child must never!
A child MUST NOT give any excuse to allow them to talk in a LOUD tone to their parents by saying "You started with that tone first!".
Why do parents talk in loud tone?
There must be reasons ...
- to emphasize the importance of the commands given
- to warn or teach a lesson after several reminders have been extended
- to ensure that the advice offered registered into their mind
- to prevent them from getting annoyed by the child's anticipated behaviour.
Bear in mind what ever the tone used by parents when they speak must be for reasons.... they are used to the child's behaviour and they know by heart how the child will react ...
A child MUST NOT use a loud or harsh tone when talking to parents!! NEVER, NEVER!
