Trivial matter... people may have said... Yeah it all starts with trivial matter... Most of the times we choose to ignore and hope the uneasy feelings would go away. But when it recurs and continues to recur these trivial matters would accumulate and become big enough to blow your top. Every trivial things that coupes up inside becomes complicated to explain... How do you define trivial anyway? Things that are trivial to you might not viewed the same by others...
When you regard something or some one to be important in your life you would want to be able to see or hold it/her whenever you have the chance. You would want her to be counted in every little thing of your life. When you start to exclude her in situation that is or was once important in your life, she would get the signal and a gap starts to develop in between. Every trivial matter you created would make the gap wider. Even if she tries so much to close the gap by doing things she would like you to do to her the gap won't disappear unless the effort is mutual. Her repetitive frustrations will make her stop from trying to close the gap. She will cease all efforts. She would give in and create her own new circle of happiness. Over time her feelings will just turn numb...
Hope it won't be too late for any one to realise that he / she should take trivial matter seriously.... especially when it involves some one he /she thinks important in his/her life.
